Free

You are free to establish your kingdom where you see fit, but the right choice is inevitable if you remember this:

Spirit is in a state of grace forever.

Your reality is only spirit.

Therefore you are in a state of grace forever.

Atonement undoes all errors in this respect, and thus uproots the source of fear.

Whenever you experience God's reassurances as threat, it is always because you are defending misplaced or misdirected loyalty.

When you project this to others you imprison them, but only to the extent to which you reinforce errors they have already made.